Anti-Relationshipism - February 2015

Valentine’s day will be here in the next few days. There are probably a lot of people looking forward to it and wondering what their lover has planned or people making big plans for it.

Don’t remember ever looking forward to that day? I’m almost afraid to give anybody anything for Valentine’s Day. Don’t want anyone thinking or feeling that I want something just because I was being thoughtful.  

All year long, there are usually a lot of females blabbing out how they are single or just single people out here in general so they probably could use a card or box of chocolates, who knows.

Last month I mentioned how women attach strings to their actions, especially when it’s sexual. The day I enter a relationship, any kind of a relationship, if we did not establish how it’s going to work,

I repeat DO NOT give me shit if it’s not unconditional. Don’t give me any gifts, a ride, advice, sex, money, food, head, pictures, Lego sets, etc etc if you feel I owe you afterwards. If I do owe you, you don’t have to worry about me paying my dues, my credit is great. 

Valentine’s Day has also become “Judgement Day”, from what I’ve heard. There’s a lot of “players” out here today. There are also a lot people being the “side piece”. It’s a lot of weird shit going on today in the world of relationships anymore. As long as you know your roll, it’s cool right?

Hell, some of you don’t even know you’re the side piece or know your partner has a side piece. Sheeeiit, some of y’all partners have a family on the side that you know nothing about. After Feb 14^th, you will know or it may be more obvious where you stand, maybe. You may be one of those side pieces that know you’re the side piece and don’t mind. You also may be one of those people how know your partners has a side piece and you’re ok with it. That’s cool if that’s what you on, just continue to know your roll when the 14^th rolls around and everything will be ok.

Valentine’s Day “should” be more of an appreciation day for the one(s) who care for you. Not a “what are you going to do for me or get me” day. I can barely stand these greedy, unappreciative, ungrateful “bitches” (females and males) these days. If you are single, treat yourself. Don’t sit around throwing a pity party when you could be sitting around eating a nice meal that you cooked or bought, watching a good movie, sleeping, working or doing whatever by your damn self. It’s ok, you can do this. If that doesn’t work, try treating someone else with something thoughtful. Leave those strings/irrational emotions in your closet or trunk and just enjoy the moment.